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 I woke up this morning and went through my usual morning routine. As I stepped out of the shower, I remembered I intended to look for work today.  I got the best looking clothes I still have, got dressed, applied deodorant, brushed my teeth, removed the rat’s nests from my curly hair, and then looked at the tube of foundation on the counter. As I looked at it, I thought, “Why don’t employment programs that help people look for work by providing clothing also help with cosmetics?”

Now, I might not have thought this at all if it weren’t for the zero dollars per week I can pull in reliably right now. I might also have thought how much I resent being forced to look for work because the People’s Republic of Hoosierdom has decided I qualify as an able-bodied adult without dependents. These are separate issues.  Wearing makeup is part of looking professional for women.  Poor women may have just as many problems purchasing cosmetics as they do purchasing suitable clothing.  Yet the system assumes that women only need what men need when they apply for a job or go to an interview.

Professional expectations are inherently sexist, but it seems that the programs designed to help people get employment would take this difference between genders into account. Those programs with which I am familiar do not provide such assistance.

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 Last night was not a good night.  Any night where you spend half the night in the Emergency Room seldom is.  I've already told the tale elsewhere, but something else is bugging me about the visit last night. The ER Doctor -- the same one who had told me he had had 200 kidney stones several years ago, oddly enough -- took none of my concerns seriously and kept interrupting me. I was the patient, and I  was probably not in the best mental state to handle the situation. However, my roommate was also in the room last night. When she tried to bring anything up, the doctor kept interrupting her.

I could not say anything last night, but now I feel the need to give that doctor a good swift kick in the rump.  Listen, Doc, I know you're the expert on medical issues, but I asked her along because she is an expert on what I've been going through. She has lived with me for the past three years. You have not. If she thinks something is relevant that I missed, you need to pay attention to her. After she has stated her concerns, you can answer her.

You thought it was bronchitis and a nonspecific polyarthritis exacerbation, and you are probably right. (At least you didn't think it was fibromyalgia pain. I only thought it might not be fibromyalgia pain because of the way my tendons had been acting for weeks.)  As someone who used to work with words, I believe that "nonspecific" means you don't actually know what's causing my joint issues, but I have enough of the necessary symptoms to get an arthritis diagnosis.

If you'd realized I was the same person you treated for Kidney stones a few years ago, would you have treated me the same way?  Would you write this rant off as the effects of being shot with corticosteriods last night if you saw it today?

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