It seems I'm far less diplomatic when I'm trying to be diplomatic. Should have gone in with the typical bluntness that is the norm within my family.

I'm not sure if this will serve as a learning experience or a mistake I will repeat many more times in the future. I just thought a single Facebook message would be more efficient.

I'm laughing now because I realized my blunder as soon as I got an accusatory message. At least I'm laughing at myself right now. I'm not sure the intended targets of this message will see it as a the blunder of someone who has very poor social skills.